What your mother-in-law won't tell you
BY READERS DIGEST
1st Jan 2015 Dating & Relationships
We asked a mother-in-law what she wishes could say to her daughter-in-law—and it's a lot nicer and more heartfelt than you might think!
1. It hurts to be downsized
I spent a couple of decades being the leading lady; now I have a smaller role.
2. I know he’s your husband now
But he’s still my son.
3. You don’t have to call me Mum
But it would be nice if you did.
4. Thank you
I don’t always say it because I’m afraid you’ll think I’m sucking up. But I’ve never seen my son happier than he is now, married and with children.
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5. A little gratitude wouldn’t hurt
Every year, I send you a birthday present, but you never even pick up the phone to thank me. This year, I said, “That’s it. No more.” Yet look at me: I’m about to send another present. I guess that’s how I am.
6. I want the best for both of us
We mothers say to our children, “I want you to be happy.” And we mean that. What we don’t say is, “But I would like to be happy, too.”
7. I know a little something
I’ve bought and sold 13 houses in my life. Why won’t you ask for my advice?
8. When I visit you, I’m just coming to see the family
I’m not coming for a white-glove inspection.
9. I’ve got his number
When I really want to talk to my son privately, I don’t call your house. I call his mobile phone.
10. I’m truly appreciative
I’m happy that you allow my son—your husband—to visit me on Mother’s Day. It’s a long trip and a big expense.
11. I have a dirty little secret
I’m afraid that if I don’t get this right, you’ll cut me off.
12. I’m lucky to have you!
Whenever I stay at your house, you always have my room ready, my towels, everything. You do all the right things.
13. I really want to make you happy
If you hate that green sweater I bought you, please, please tell me.
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