We asked a mother-in-law what she wishes could say to her daughter-in-law—and it's a lot nicer and more heartfelt than you might think!

1. It hurts to be downsized

I spent a couple of decades being the leading lady; now I have a smaller role.

 

2. I know he’s your husband now

But he’s still my son.

 

3. You don’t have to call me Mum 

But it would be nice if you did.

 

4. Thank you

I don’t always say it because I’m afraid you’ll think I’m sucking up. But I’ve never seen my son happier than he is now, married and with children.

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5. A little gratitude wouldn’t hurt

Every year, I send you a birthday present, but you never even pick up the phone to thank me. This year, I said, “That’s it. No more.” Yet look at me: I’m about to send another present. I guess that’s how I am.

 

6. I want the best for both of us

We mothers say to our children, “I want you to be happy.” And we mean that. What we don’t say is, “But I would like to be happy, too.”

 

7. I know a little something

I’ve bought and sold 13 houses in my life. Why won’t you ask for my advice?

 

8. When I visit you, I’m just coming to see the family

I’m not coming for a white-glove inspection.

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9. I’ve got his number 

When I really want to talk to my son privately, I don’t call your house. I call his mobile phone.

 

10. I’m truly appreciative

I’m happy that you allow my son—your husband—to visit me on Mother’s Day. It’s a long trip and a big expense.

 

11. I have a dirty little secret 

I’m afraid that if I don’t get this right, you’ll cut me off.

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12. I’m lucky to have you!

Whenever I stay at your house, you always have my room ready, my towels, everything. You do all the right things.

 

13. I really want to make you happy

If you hate that green sweater I bought you, please, please tell me.

 

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